by Andrea Smith 

I knew I had dense breast tissue and was diligent about my yearly mammogram appointments. However, in the spring of 2023, when I received a call from Windsong Radiology asking me to return for additional imaging and an ultrasound, followed by a biopsy, I was worried. Then, on July 4, my OB-GYN called to say, “You have cancer.”

A meeting with my breast cancer surgeon at Windsong revealed my stage 0/1 diagnosis. I was lucky they found it early. But I had tumors in two separate locations, which required a mastectomy and reconstruction with an implant, performed by a local plastic surgeon. The nerve pain wasn’t anything I’d experienced before. It wasn’t just a physical battle. It was also an emotional one. I spent a week with drains and another 5 to 6 weeks recovering before returning to work as a middle school Spanish teacher. I was also seeing an oncologist and was put on a drug I was told I would have to take for 5-7 years. When the side effects became unbearable, I was placed on an alternative medication before ultimately taking anastrozole, which I was able to tolerate. Fortunately, I did not require chemotherapy or radiation.

Through it all, one of the most important lessons I learned was to advocate for myself. Ultimately, I was fortunate to have an amazing team of practitioners who supported me in accommodating my unique needs. I also found support among other breast cancer patients and was ultimately led to the Breast Cancer Network of WNY and to Kimberly LaRusso’s Facebook group, Sweet Buffalo Breasties. Both the Breast Cancer Network’s comprehensive programs and the support from the women I connected with through this unique Facebook group enveloped me in care and understanding I didn’t think was possible throughout my journey. 

Several support groups exist here in Western New York, as well as across the country. I have learned that reading personal stories from others who have gone through or are currently experiencing similar things reminds me I’m not alone. However, it is a constant struggle, a mental battle against the fear that creeps in whenever I feel slightly sore or achy and think it may come back. What helps me most to defy that fear and stand up to it is talking to others, sharing my story, and encouraging others to get their annual exams, because early detection can save lives.

Just a few years ago, things really changed for me, and I have learned so much. I want others to know that many people are here to support them, including me. Learn more about the Breast Cancer Network of WNY (BCNWNY) at https://www.bcnwny.org and check out their monthly calendar at https://www.bcnwny.org/calendar-breast-cancer-events, or call 716-706-0060. Also, check out Sweet Buffalo Breasties on Facebook at https://tinyurl.com/Sweet-Buffalo-Breasties. 

We are here for you!