A Patient Story from Horizon Health
Miranda’s mom, Peggy, was aware that her daughter was dealing with normal teenage angst. She would fight with her siblings and girlfriends, cry, get angry for no apparent reason, and was often unapproachable. But her grades were good, and without any major problems, Peggy assumed Miranda would outgrow this difficult stage.
Miranda enrolled at Buffalo State College, but dropped out after one semester, saying she couldn’t handle the stress and was having difficulty concentrating. She refused to get a job, and started spending less time with friends. “I had no self-esteem,” says Miranda. “I felt ugly, and I hated myself. I didn’t know it, of course, but it was due to my illness. It was a very difficult time, and it upsets me to look back.”
After seeing a psychiatrist, Miranda was diagnosed with major depression and prescribed medication. When she began treatment at Horizon Health things began to change. “Finally, at age 20, Miranda was properly diagnosed and treated for a mental health disorder,” said Peggy. Miranda received a thorough clinical evaluation and psychiatric assessment, regular counseling, and medication. Although initially uncooperative, Miranda eventually connected with her counselor and doctors.
Although Miranda experienced bumps in the road and the ups and downs that often accompany a program of recovery, she continued to see her psychiatrist and began participating in individual and group counseling sessions. She also enrolled in Horizon’s vocational program to learn skills to prepare her for the job market. “I realized that everyone was supportive and patient, responsive to my needs, positive, and encouraging. I wouldn’t be where I am today if I hadn’t received help from Horizon,” said Miranda. Peggy agrees, saying, “I learned that Miranda’s illness is treatable and that it wasn’t my fault. I am grateful for the relationship we now have.”
Miranda has learned how to cope with her illness, is more proactive, and cognizant of her symptoms. Most of all, she feels more grounded and hopeful. She says, “I didn’t realize how much I had learned until I found myself using the helpful techniques I was taught. I also don’t define myself by my mental illness. It’s just one part of who I am.”
Most children and teenagers will experience some “up and down” moods and moments of sadness. We all do. However, a teenager who is depressed will have persistent emotional and behavioral symptoms, such as sadness, hopelessness, a loss of energy, lack of interest in activities previously enjoyed, and feelings of isolation. It’s important to know the signs to look for and how you can help at home.
If you are concerned about a loved start by having a conversation. Ask your loved one how he or she is feeling and then take the next steps together.
Horizon has a team of over 250 outpatient counselors and psychiatric providers that can help individuals and families get through these difficult times. With over 20 locations throughout Western New York, finding one closest to where you live should be easy. Call 716-831-1800 today, and visit www.horizon-health.org.
